The
one constant in life is change (and taxes, but that’s a different story). Most
of us are afraid of change. We become comfortable with the way things are, the
habits we have, and the people we see. Soon, we no longer see positives and negatives.
Instead we lope along in a state of limbo. We fail to evaluate our lives, and
consider what may or may not be working for us, until something happens which
shakes us out of this status quo.
If
we are then brave enough to take stock and have the courage of our convictions,
we can make a decision to change. Hopefully it will be for the better. This
process is often arduous and fraught with self-doubt. Even after we have made
the decision, we second-guess ourselves. This continues until we realise that
we once again have a spring in our step, we are singing in the shower, and it’s
a joy to wake in the morning. How could we have been so blind?
Set
this harsh criticism aside and embrace what is.
If
you are facing a difficult decision or your life is dreadfully unhappy, I urge
you to take the first step. Inertia will destroy you. Just do it!
